The widely held view that divorce and remarriage are permissible on the grounds of sexual unfaithfulness or desertion, as I hope to have shown, is not consistent with the whole counsel of God and especially the teaching of Jesus and Paul.

Firstly it is inconsistent with what Jesus and Paul taught about love and faithfulness. Secondly, the prevailing view that the exception for divorce as recorded by Matthew justifies divorce and remarriage is based on a number of assumptions, none of which can be satisfactorily upheld. This view effectively undermines the sanctity of marriage by making love and faithfulness conditional.

The exception for divorce in Matthew only applied to the circumstance of betrothal unfaithfulness where a woman has been sexually unfaithful before marriage.

Understandably to live by the standard that I believe Jesus taught about marriage is not easy, but is possible by the grace and power that God willingly supplies (2 Peter 1:2-4). When we truly know God’s love we can also love others as He loves us. Therefore to remain faithful and possibly be single is not unreasonable or a burden too great to bear for what God has asked of us, He also gives the grace and strength to do.

Peter Miles

May 2020

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